That mug is hilarious. Are you careful about where you get it out? My son has this beautiful ceramic mug with a labia on it - it's very tactile. He always makes sure he gives it to someone who's be shocked by it, which is hilarious. He's really subtle about it - doesn't say a thing, doesn't smile - and watches their reaction. I mean it's actually a gorgeous mug and the labia is very life like.

I love the friends you meet late in life, just when you think you'll never meet anyone new worth hanging out with. It seems easier when you're young. My husband has recently foiund a firm friend and it's really a blessing. I'm so glad.