"DIFFERENT" or "BETTER"

I am better than him!
or
I am not better than him!

We have often heard people saying these statements, but are such statements correct?

Can we ever compare ourselves to others?

Each individual has a different thought process and so will their end products or services.

Is there a need to change the word "Better" with "Different"?

Each individual has a different upbringing, no two individuals are the same, even after taking the same training, the end products will have some difference.

The day we start respecting the differences, the competition of getting ahead of each other will be stopped.

Since our childhood we have been told to be better than others but how can we be compared to each other?

Even twins don't behave the same, they have different lives.

Anger, greed, jealousy are the byproducts of the competition( with others).

Moreover, how frustrating would it be to try to copy someone when you are a completely different individual.

Comparison, when done to another person is very subjective, the only comparison we must focus on is with our own self.

The genuine comparison between two persons product & services can only be done when we assume both persons lead a very similar life and that is impossible and so this type of comparison has not substance.