Ditch Expectations

One of my favorite expressions about relationships: waiting is a reason for disappointment.

Too often, when we enter into a long-term relationship, we begin to expect something from our partner. They take the puppy out every morning, so we expect this. We make dishes every night, so they begin to expect from us.

This is the worst thing you can do for your LTR. If you want to be happy, get rid of expectations. It doesn't matter how often your partner does something. You must be content and excited when they do this. The truth is that no one owes anything to each other (even in a relationship), and if you find someone who does certain things because they care and love you, you are very, very lucky.

By abandoning your expectations, you will not only make them feel more valuable, you will also change your own mind to naturally look at the positive aspects of your love.