Do People Care About You, or What You Can Do for Them?

Hello, Ram Ram, Namaste, Sastriyakal, to all Hive users. Today I'll tell you whether people care about you or what you can do for them. We all have our friends, family, and other people whom we like to talk to and care for. But do they think the same of us as we think of them? We don't know

What people think about you ?

People have different thoughts about you and your family - some people who are your well-wishers, they always pray for your good. I have felt this in my life that if you are dependent on others, then some people try to make you feel them that they are the superior and without them nothing can happen. I have felt this in my family, because my father had passed away in 2015 when I was in LKG and now I am in 10th standard, so, 11 years have passed, my family felt difficulties not because of financial problems but, because of a person to takecare and manage all the things of house beacause before my father's death he only managed all the things all the house, because my grandfather do not take care about managing house work - basically about buying the things and managing all the things, he do not get any interest in managing house work and he gives all the expenses of the house and he is a chill type person. But my grandmother manages all the buying and all the expenses of the house very carefully and efficiently. Everybody ask you at the time of happiness, but no one cares about your saddness because all need the moments of happiness rather than saddness.

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1st part

Basically it is the time of my janeu, the date of the function was decided 2-3 months ago, the date of function was decided as 9 and 10 April, 2025, I was excited for that because grandfather had planned function in the Banquet hall but, this was not accepted. There is one of my uncle, basially my grandmother's nephew so, he lives nearby our house and he comes to our house regularly and he was like that he wanted to show our family that he is the superior and without him any work in our house can't be done without him, but, I didn't liked his behaviour from starting. But, my family realised this at last. So, he had came to our house and when he heard about that grandfather planned my janeu function in the Banquet hall, then he said to my grandfather that if you have enough money then, you can perform the function in the banquet hall but, there is not any need of this and I can manage to do the function in the house itself, I will cook and prepare the food myself for almost 150 - 200 guests. Our family members agreed because he forced our family to do so, but, I totally opposed it, but, as I am youngest in my family so, I didn't speaked. Then the date of function came nearby, so, almost 2 days before function my bua and fufaji arrived at our house to manage and prepare the things before. It was the previous day before function, so, the uncle arrived at my house, he had brought a man for catering with him because my grandmother had said him to arrange a catering person, he planned to prepare to food by himself but, as my grandmother had told him, he brought a catering person and he was in anger, my fufaji said that there is a need for catering person because for a normal person it is difficult to manage making the food for 150 - 200 people. Then he replied to my fufaji that you are not their well wishers. He said this to show that he is only the superior, but, it's totally opposite case and you would also be understanding this. Then my janeu function held at home only, the uncle made the guests wash utensils who had came at function and they were our relative who came from Lucknowm Merrut, Delhi, Noida and other far places. It was shameful. Then my janeu function held like this, but, the religious things were performed best by pundits.

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2nd part

Then it came the time of Rakshabandhan, the uncle came again a day before Rakshabandhan and he had came to meet my family but, I don't feel that it can be called a meeting. He was asking me about my studies and I said fine. Then he said that tell that what you studied in your tution today, so I said that I studied that this particular chapter in maths and science I studied in tution then he said that which exercise you did, I forgot that exercise number, so, he started asking me are you studying properly and a no. of more blames to me, that you are making fool of your family because they don't know about anything and the moment he said that I am making fool of my family, tears came in my eyes because think about a boy who lost his father at a small age and his grandparents are also old, so, would that boy make a fool of his family or work more hard and try to make happy from his success in future, exactly I thought about that why I'll make fool of my family, rather than that I would do more hardwork, whether I get success or not but, one day I would achieve my goals and success. Then he said me these rubbish things and made my mood very sad and that day my family also said to me that why your are not studying and that made me sad because that made person made my family feel that I am making fool of them, from that day I don't want to listen any single word from that person and from that day that person's ego hurted him and he reduced coming to our house and I don't talk from him, I only say him namaste and go back in my room and he also don't talk talk from me, except hello because I think that he has realised that my family can do things without his guidance and help. I made a promise to myself that in future I'll make my feel very proud of me and prove that person totally worng and from that day I didn't visited his house and I don't want to see his face but, he only comes to my house and that word touched my heart and hurted me a lot and today also it hurts a lot. So, work hard and reach to success and make your family proud so, that these type of persons can never make feel people that he is the superioir.

So, for today, this much only, till further goodbye.