Red flags differs

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Most times when we truly love we rarely see red flags...we try to accommodate our partners irrespective of their inadequacies. Red flags are those character or behavior that can endanger one's life in a relationship. Red flags can easily be identify at dating stage before marriage but some people are very good in pretence that you won't discover till you are married to them. I must say that red flags differs from one individual to another and that is why self discovery is very important before entering into any relationship.

Self discovery is you identifying who you are, what you like and what you don't like. A person like me I don't like long silence treatment, it hurts me a lot. You might be cool with it. Discover who you really are before thinking of relationship because failure to do so will make you bow to everything even when you are hurting.

Another thing that I feel one should watch out for is how the person treat people. A man or woman that fights with almost everybody but is treating you well is a pretender. One-day it will be your turn.
A man or woman with anger issues should be advise to go for therapy before thinking of relationship, if not he can destroy all you built together for years in a minute if he gets out of control.

Relationship is beyond "I love you", is he comfortable with your vision as a woman? If a man or woman doesn't support your vision it is better to stay away from such and wait for the one that will support you. 

Never feel that you can change a character in your partner, if there are things you feel you can't live with don't be shy to tell your partner and if there are no improvement, save yourself future loneliness in marriage by walking away now.

Lastly, who can speak to him/her that he/she listens to. If there is none, my dear, you are on your own, you will need to be extra careful in such a relationship and remember to confirm your medical compatibility too. If you are not compatible it is a big red flag. Love is sweet,don't just date with your heart it is a journey you must go with your brain, eyes wide open and on bended knees.
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