How to stop comparing yourself to others ?

In our profession and in our studies, we always compare our position with those around us when there is any improvement. That is what we do with all our relatives and friends. It is more in the people themselves. Like those with whom we studied together and now he has a much better job and I am still unemployed. Or how happy she is and my family is always in trouble. Even if we don't want to, we often compare ourselves to others because of our family. For example, between two friends, if one results better than the other. His family says that he has done very well. Why don't you do well? You stay together but he does well but why can't you. This also happens in the case of jobs. In the case of jobs it becomes in itself. When someone else gets a good job or promotion, we start comparing ourselves to them. Comparing is a normal human process. Everyone does it. And it does more with its own people. Comparisons are never bad. It is through comparison that we create new ideas. But when the amount is too much, it causes problems.

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Because we are only comparing his work with his work but in reality it may be different. Like he worked hard so he got a good job but you didn't work like him so you didn't get it. But as soon as you start comparing your world, you will develop a hatred for your work which will have an impact on your professional life and family life. So learn to accept reality without imagining. Try to find out the reason behind its good results, then you will improve if you apply it yourself.

Create your own future self. If you start working for your beautiful future now, then your future will be beautiful. If you want to get a good job from now on you have to try for it, then you will get it one time. Compare with your past and present position. Then you will be able to understand your own mistakes and good deeds. If you try to do good from the position you are in then you will get promotion like that. Life is not the same for everyone. So do not compare your own life with the life of others. We just compare our own bad with the happiness of others.

You have to work creatively without wasting time comparing yourself with others. Believe in yourself. You can never stop comparing. But if you are involved in your own work, you do not waste time comparing yourself with others.