Growing Up the Hard Way: My Journey from Teenager to Adulthood

Asalamkalekum and hello to my #WeekendExperiences community. Welcome to another blog. Believe me I am the one who was waiting for @galenkp weekend engagement topics post. I like the way he always come up with something w and interesting for all of us to express our thoughts. All the topics are very interesting but I will go with the last one.

Write about your personal transition from teen-ager to adulthood. What Challenges, failures and success occured and how did they shape your future??

I am the one who made lots of mistakes and blunders in my teen-age. No one was there to guide me and I learned everything from experimenting. But stiI eel myself lucky because I learned a lesson from these mistakes and I am not repeatin those mistakes again and again. I hate those people who repeat mistakes. When you progress in your life and take decisions n your life you may take wrong decisions at times but it doesn't man you should not take decisions.

In my teen-age I made plenty of mistakes. I had assets like files of flat, plot and some gold in my hand. But at that time I wasn't wise enough that I could preserve those assets. Whenever I needed money I sold those assets one by one. In the end I sold all my assets. Now I think that those mistakes that I made in my teen-age were adverse decisions of my life. But believe me I am still satisfied because I know if we learn from our mistakes, we get more opportunities and I am getting opportunities Alhamdolillah. I think making mistakes is a sign that you are taking decisions and practical steps in your life but not learning from those mistakes is an adverse thing that I noticed so far.

I came across many failures in my life. I had a dream to become slim and smart and I tried many times to loose my weight but everytime I failed in loosing my weight. In fact loosing belly fat was a challenge for me. But believe me I lost my belly fat in few months because of consistency ad discipline in exercise and by taking balanced and protein based diet. I challenged myself and I succeeded in it. That was a real success for me and I am still feel proud that success.