Weekend Engagement: Being different, embrace it. -WEEK 266-

Being a human being in a society where how you looked and how you dressed is important, for the wrong reasons. since I was a child I've had to endure the overwhelming idea of ideal image, society has created for women.

I'm a short woman, with curly hair and big eyes... and most of my life I was in the middle of being chubby and slim, not one thing or another just a bit curvy. and on top of it, I'm not the kind of girl that could take control over her curls and do not pay much attention to make up or at dress stylishing. I'm more like a savage flower that love to not follow the regulars when it comes to this matters, but love to look cute to flatter myself and look nice according to my moods. however, this is not something most of the people understand and even less in my country where beuty standars are high, we are expected to look gorgeous, perfect with long straight hair, curvy but not that much. So yes, I've suffered from "Bullying" because of how I looked, my height, my eyes and even my hair. this was more usual when I was a child and even as a teenager, but I've never pay much attention to the comments, I used to laugh at it or ignore it if it hurt. I think comments can affect you, if you allow it. when you show it hurts, people keep saying bad things about you and try to ridiculised you even more, but when you laugh at the comments, ignore it or make a great wit comments about it, you take the weapon from the hands of the aggressor.

Finally, I think all of us need to understand differences exist, they are normal. And if something hurts, look at it, laugh at it and don't give the power to others to make you feel inferior for something you should be proud of because you're alive and different, since there is no something more boring than being part of homogeneity.

thanks for reading me, hope to see you here next time.

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