Parents, Don't Avoid This Conversation: Your Child's Safety Depends on It

Many parents are highly educated and they also give very good education to their children and we should also do the same because if children are educated then they understand a little more. I would not say that people who are not educated are not intelligent, it is not like that at all. I have seen many people who may not have even gone to school till date but they have very good knowledge of everything and they also know how to read a few things which they have learnt without going to school. Maybe they must have realized this fact that education is also necessary, at least a little bit already. But see, nowadays bookish studies don't help. You need to know a lot of things, and there are some things that are extremely important; if not taught on time, these things can prove harmful for your children if they don't get the information on time. So, as you might have guessed from the topic, today's discussion is going to be about sex education.

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If I talk about my India, even here people are very shy to talk about this topic and if I talk about my own family, here too hardly anyone will talk openly about sex education. It may be possible that everyone might be discussing it with their partners but hardly anyone would like to sit together and discuss this with their children and the entire family. But we should do all these things and educate the children because it is very important. And today through this post I will keep you in mind with a few points which will give you some clarity.

Kids are innocent -:

Our children, being very innocent, are curious to know things and are also eager to know many things. And many people take advantage of this. Many times it happens that some elders do such things with small children which they should not do, but they do it because the children are unaware of what is happening to them. Many children may forget about all these things, but if they are not reminded for a long time, then perhaps after a moment they understand what is happening to them. As I said, children are innocent and we should explain to them what is right and what is wrong and the sooner these things are taught to them, the better it is. You will see that gradually you can teach things to children as per their age.

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Talk with them -:

The most important thing we should do is talk to our children. If your children are getting a little older, you should ask them how school went, what happened, ask them about their day , and you should also share things with them because if you don't share things, the children will probably stop sharing things with you. And if the child is telling you something, you should take interest in it. If you don't show interest, the child will probably not be interested in telling you anything, which will then lead to the continuation of your relationship. It increases. And this is also a serious problem. So keep talking to your children regularly and even during mealtimes, have some smart conversations with your child in a friendly manner.

Better understanding -:

It is important to tell children about sex education slowly, because it is necessary because children are ignorant and naive, they do not know which is good for them and which is bad, nowadays the time is so bad, we should gradually teach children that which body parts are your private and which you should not reveal in public place (Those the adults are doing that for purpose, I hope get the idea what I am talking about ). You have to do this and quite slowly you can tell the children what is bad touch and good touch so that they gradually understand a little bit that if a person touches them badly then they start getting an idea of this. See, you can educate the children but the rest is their solution how to implement them. But your duty is to educate children and tell them and you should talk openly with children about this topic and tell them what changes will take place in your body at different ages and you should be prepared for it and much more. I have seen that some families are very friendly and they do everything with the children quite comfortably but some families hesitate in doing this kind of thing because it is not a good thing if you educate your children then maybe they will realize what is wrong and what is right.

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Try to be friended with your kids -:

We should behave in a friendly manner with children, we should not show too much affection, that too has a negative impact on them, but we should educate them and tell them what all things are there in our society and what things they should be protected from, what are the things to do and what not to do. If you don't talk with your child then, they might not share anything with you. This is not a good thing. If you live in a friendly environment with your children, they will share things with you. And this is very important too. You have to educate them and tell them what all these things are, what they should be protected from, and what things they should pay attention to. We should tell them these small things.

Nowadays children are told about many things in schools and they are made aware of them, but see, the environment is not the same everywhere. If you look at the crime rates today, not only the family members but also the neighbors abuse the children. Children are abused in schools too, so many changes are visible. In the society, we will have to act accordingly and educate the children about this, which is very important.

In many cases, if someone abuses a child, the child becomes deeply depressed or so distressed that they cannot share anything with anyone. But if you notice any changes in your child or any drastic change in their behavior, you should be alert and concerned. What do you think about this?

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