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Storm Signals …Finis …The Eye of the Hurricane

When you come out of the storm, you won't be the same person who walked in ― Haruki Murakami Running from smoke into the flames—that’s how it felt. Yes, I was frustrated

Storm Signals ...Part 3 ...Place of Refuge

We fear monsters because we fear the dark parts of ourselves I’m with Mar again after my blowup with Chrissie and I make the mistake of telling her about our quarrel.

Lonely Hispanic Engineer! CALL IN SHOW

Philosopher Stefan Molyneux takes on a lonely engineer's habit of looping over minor injustices that hit hardest when he's alone. He traces the isolation to years

Storm Signals …Part 2 …Hiding the Past

I know I am but summer to your heart, and not the full four seasons of the year. ― Edna St. Vincent Millay En Plein Air I’ve been unfaithful—besides seeing Mar and

The Usual Ups And Downs.

Closeness and connection are not always the same thing. Sometimes, what we call closeness is simply performance. It is the art of constantly managing people's

Storm Signals ...Part 1 …Black Rain

The world itself is a bad dream. Forgetfulness, like snow, should numb and cover it, but it was part of me… my landscape —Sylvia Plath There was a time when I was

Loving boyfriend

A loving boyfriend is someone who brings peace, care, and support into a relationship. Love is not only about saying sweet words or buying expensive gifts. It is

I Just Chose a Niche and Created a Page on X

Mainstream social media is still quite the big boys to roll with. Tiktok, Facebook, X, YouTube, if you make it on these platforms it's usually some next level type

Men and Women CAN'T BE FRIENDS! X/Twitter Livestream

Philosopher Stefan Molyneux lays out how men and women can't be friends in this 13 July 2026 livestream by showing how attraction between an attractive man and woman

Donde el ruido no entra

Donde el ruido no entra Italiano. Treinta y tres años. Alto. Tatuajes. Cabello rizado, siempre un poco despeinado. Calmado. Tranquilo. Pleasure Dom. Divertido. Fácil

Gender imbalance, chlorine obsession and what else I've been up to lately

I find Matt Walsh a strange, perplexing sort of fella. In the sense that I agree a lot with him and sometimes appreciate his brutal wit, but sometimes find him still

Making Amends …Closed Doors. ...A Tale of Control

The past is never where you think you left it. — Katherine Anne Porter . I'm a writer and draw on my experiences, however limited they may be. I like to think I'm

How "Policies" Make Your Boundaries Easier To Enforce.

One of the easiest ways to enforce your boundaries is to create personal policies for yourself. A personal policy is basically a little rule you live by. It’s something

Challengers: Muchísimo más que un drama deportivo, una obra de cine total [ESP]

Fuente Podemos pretender que el sexo, el deseo carnal y la lujuria son elementos que son "impropios" del buen cine, pero eso no sólo sería desconocer la

The First Precious Thing Is You

Do not wait too long to love yourself fully, before you look for love from others. No one else can love, understand and care for you exactly in the way you truly

Scandal ...Part 2 ...Reliving the Torture

Clever manipulators master the art of telling just enough truth to sell their lie. ― Kurian Mathew Tharakan Tender Trap When I heard the term emotional abuse I thought

Scandal ...Part 1 ...Beguiled

Deflection became her signature move, redirecting inquiries about herself back to me or focusing solely on the present moment, as if the past didn't exist. ― Neal

Heat Wave ...The Heat of Passion

July came like three o'clock in the afternoon, hot and listless and miserable. —Allie Ray 100 degrees in the shade and some smart ass reporter’s frying an egg on

School of Hard Knocks ... Learning a Lesson

For myself, I find I become less cynical rather than more―remembering my own sins and follies; and realize that men's hearts are not often as bad as their acts,

School of Hard Knocks ...Part 1 ...Living in Limbo

You learn more from getting your butt kicked than getting it kissed. ― Tom Hanks Unrequited Love People want a set of rules for living—why else would self-help books,