In Tune

There are a lot of things to look out for in a lover before entering a relationship with them like, 'what they like to eat, like to wear, like to dance', on and all so says many relationship counsellors. But some would tell you the real fact, and that is, "YOU BOTH HAVE TO BE IN TUNE"

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                   What's this in tune? 

  I will tell you the meaning of this in simple terms, 'To be IN TUNE means to align, to fit, to match'.

   There's no Mister or Mrs Perfect in this world. Even machines built by humans isn't perfect, not to talk of the ones who came about by natural selection. But if you say you love someone, you have to accommodate their flaws, beautify their mistakes and bring out the best in them. No wonder it was being said that, "Christ loves us",he doesnt mind the things we did wrong and he always has a way of beautifying our lives despite the mistakes we make.

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This same love is what you should show to your date if you say you love them. Don't react to every of their mistake, and like in my last post https://steemit.com/steemit/@victorlovesecret/trust-e5dffbb837d94 ,Trust Them, this will save you many unnecessary worry.
I actually found out from the numerous people I've councelled that paranoia is the reason they fall out of tune with their dates. They just plant the seed that their lover is cheating on then until they just can't help see every action their lover make as a step towards leaving them.

  Learn to be in tune, then you will see you and your lover were brought together by love to achieve a common goal.
     **BE IN TUNE**

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