When One Life Ends, Let the Better One Begin

As one chapter closes, you are sure that another one will surely begin. And that's a good way to live life. And that's how life was planned.

Change is a small, constant rhythm in life. In one season you are up, in another season you might be down. But some people have been so good and life has favoured them so much that they are up at all times, all through life, from the beginning to the end.

Yet, when a part of your life ends, whether a relationship, a role, rhythm or personal identity, it really feels small. Ending can sometimes arrive with grief and confusion. It can also come with failure.

It is a usual thing, so you shouldn't expect less. It is also natural. The other half is arrival, the quiet one.

That one is very invincible and so many things doesn't grow in that phase of life. When you stand at that threshold, your work is simple and it's very hard at the same time. You shouldn't be afraid to accept blessing too.

Ending can also feel like losses. It pulls us towards what we know. And we have a way through it that we should say goodbye to routine.

Even some endings, they free us from something that is difficult and can lead to fear. Fear of the unknown is real. Also, fear of repeating the same mistake over and over again makes you look foolish to yourself.

There's also fear that the next thing might be more worse than the one of present. Fear is protective in its own sense. But it's fears of what has already happened before.

But if we let fear dominate us, growth becomes a thing of the past. When you look at the ending, it gives you enough time to prepare. Not punish yourself at it.

That's not the time to shift blame. Ending a life or a chapter in life is not the final end actually. It is the page of your life turning, sheet by sheet, chapter by chapter, book by book.

As ending prepares you, you are being thrown away from things that no longer serves its purpose. As time goes on, new blessings seem to come quickly. Blessings may appear rarely as grand fanfare.

They can sometimes come in small openings. A conversation that leads to projects and likes. Friendships that deepen a bit about what is right.

Then you have people on the same page with you in life. Acceptance means you are staying receptive of things. There are also practical steps to accepting new blessings as mistakes can cause failure.

Patience and ability to associate yourself with good people at every point in time can bring you blessings. You have to first allow her next grief. Whenever something bad happens, set grief about the thing before you move on to the next phase of life.

An uncured grief can lead to a wreckage of emotional life. You should also create some small experiences here and there that can cushion if any bad thing happens. Then give you enough positive energy to move to the next one.

Then you have to see failure in a different way. Different in such a way that failure should not be seen as an end. Failure is a work in progress.

Then always be grateful at all times. Those are the things that you need to cross from being a negative bad person to a positive right person.