Cheating on my partner

Hello 👋 better people, greetings. It another beautiful week, wishing you all a blessed week. Question of the week says. Something you can never do.

Cheating is something I've never done before, and I don't plan on doing it in the future. Like it something I can never do. So while growing up I promised myself that no matter what happened I would never cheat on my partner, and I have kept that promise from that day till now, even though it was not easy or has not been easy.

Temptation comes at times, but God has been helpful. Before I got married, after I had met my husband and we did some introductions, I met this guy. I was working in Jos, Plateau State. This guy was everything a woman could wish for; he had money—not just money, he came from a very wealthy home—and was young and handsome. This guy started giving me unnecessary attention; he would come to my workplace to pick me up after work and buy me lunch.

I mean, he was doing all that a woman needs and giving me that "baby girl" treat. At some point I almost fell for it, but then I woke myself up from the slumber and reminded myself of the promise of no double dating, no matter the situation. And I was able to bring myself back.

Same thing happened after my wedding, this even happened few months ago, there is this chief we attend the same church with, so I heard some women discussing about how the man helped some person's get a job so as a graduate I said let me also try my luck, I went to this man a very prominent man in the society, he is well known in the state, he asked for my number and told me that, whenever he gets a slot from the government, he will call me to bring my CV,

unknown to me that he have a different plan, knowing fully well that I'm a married woman, this old and irresponsible man asked me to meet him in a hotel, I was shocked when he made that request, as in he knew my husband, but thinking of such with me I was disappointed at him. But as usual, I know myself and the promise I have made, and I turned his request down. And this act has built trust in my marriage. Like I can go to anywhere and wear any kind of dress that I want. My husband has never doubted me. So yes, cheating is something I've never done and can never do in the future by God's grace, I will rather look for solution to whatever is the problem than to cheat. Thank you for reading through.