All the time in your life

Bismillahir Rahmanir Raheem All Praises of Allahu ta'ala Assalamualaikum Warahmatullahi Wabarakatuhu
Spend some time for yourself without spending all of your life behind others,
Many people may be surprised to hear me but we spend our lives behind her all the time. It is very real. You think of a lover. When a boy loves a girl, he always spends time behind that girl. The boy's days go by, nights go by, weeks go by, months go by, months go by, but the boy is slowly wasting precious time of his life behind that girl. He wasted his precious time behind that girl.
Well, now that they are reunited, they will be a very happy family, but they will be able to spend the rest of their lives happily and peacefully.

But think about it, if the opposite happens, if the boy does not get along with the girl, if they do not get married, if there are various obstacles in their marriage, then all the time the boy has spent behind the girl will be wasted.
This is why I tell you one thing, try to live for yourself for a while without spending all your time behind others. Man, yes, you love someone or you are busy with your career. No problem, but you have to give yourself time. We are so preoccupied with ourselves that we do not have time for ourselves. At the end of the day we see that we can work hard but we can do something because we have time for ourselves. I don't know when our life will end in time.
Suppose a mother, after marriage, gives her life to work behind the family, her life comes to a point where her life's hobbies and dreams are not fulfilled, everything remains untidy, so she says live for a while, try to enjoy life. Try to stay well and stay healthy. I bid farewell here like today, Assalamu Alaikum Orahmatullah and Obarakatuhu.