Help and Forget: Don’t expect Anything in Return.

Hi everyone! social interdependence is the foundation of human civilization. so every human has to be social. every person of a society depends on each other. it is impossible to live in society without any help of others.

It is a generel courtesy to help others if possible when someone request for help. I think a person anytime anywhere can fall in problems. A man with a big heart never thinks twice to help. It is not impossible that if I refuse to help someone, one day I would also be refused by others. Because no one knows about his fate. If we see the history we will see that the noble persons in the past were so kind and sacrificed their time, wealth or even their life for mankind. We should be inspired by them. In the different stages of our life we need different persons help. When we read in school we help our classmates each other. Sometimes there are some brillant students who act like they are the best students of the country. So they never help others. But when I was in school if any of my classmates requested me for help I tried my best to help them. I never felt jelous. I believed that helping classmates means spreading knowledge. Though I was too much helpful, I rarely got help from my classmates. I was also helped in exam hall. Sometimes my extra exam paper handover one side from another in the exam hall. Some teachers called Hatem Tai for insulting me. My college life was also as same as my school life. There is a harsh reality that if you help anyone selflessly one day he/she may not help you when you need thier help. So we have to compromise with this before help anyone.

There are some bad sides of helping others without their request I have some irritable experience. Sometime I helped some people on self realising. Whom I helped they took me as a fool. They took helo from me again and again but never treat me as a good friend of them. But I was too innocent to understand that. Now I justify someone before helping them.

I never help anyone If any one recognise as a selfish I help them but never trust them. My father helped his younger brother, my uncle. My father borne my uncles family's all costs for a long time. Once my uncle lost his job that's why my father took the responsibility. But my uncle then didn’t try for any work, not even agro or farming. As he got the chance to get money free so he passed his time in leisure. His whole family costs borne my father till his son's became wage earners. My father has died, my mother also died when I was child and my father didn’t marry again. I am alone now. My salary is not too much to repair or rebuild my house. So I want to sell some land of my father but my uncle doing cleverness with me. He tried along with her wife to not handover my portion of land.

It hurts me too much and teach me the hardest lesson of life.