Be a thinker, not an Overthinker.

Hi everyone! It is a fantastic imaginary feeling that if I were suddenly dropped in a strange unk land without money or help it will be an adventures moment for me. it is a funny fact hat I read Gulliver's Travels and Robinson cruso who were fall in the same situation. Also in the adventure of Sinbad I saw same incident. In my childhood I often imagine that I am a Gulliver or Robinson Crusher or Sindbad and played with other children as they ae my enemy and I fought with them. But the reaity is not like the childhood game.

When we find ourselves in a complex or new situation and we don't have enough external information, our subconscious mind searches that old library within a hundredth of a second and creates a pattern. Based on that pattern, a strong feeling or signal is created in our conscious mind. In primitive times, when humans were fighting with ferocious anmals in the forests, their instincts would alert them at a little vibration of leaves.

Before they could think rationally, they would jump to a safe distance. This instinct has essentially helped mankind survive on earth.Humans are social creatures. Every day we have to face many new people. It is a new colleague at work, a business partner or a new friend or life partner in personal life it is quite difficult to decide who to trust and who not. Many times it is seen that a person speaks very sweetly, his behavior is very elegant, his entire background is excellent; yet why does a feeling of unease arise in the mind while talking to him?

In 2024 I got a female officer in my office who had very elegant behaviour with the guests but very rude behaviour with office staffs. She always tried to make a good face to all and hide her original face with s infront of guests. Itvwas a cheating and I complained against her with strong evidence. Then she transferred in a remote area by the authority

Suppose someone cheated you in business in the past or misbehaved with you in your workplace. Now, when a new, very honest and good person comes in your office or to be your partner, your mind might jump to your rescue and say, "Don't trust him." This isn't your pure instinct, it's your past trauma or fear that's preventing you from taking on a new good opportunity. If your instincts and logic both point in the same direction, then go ahead without hesitation. But if logic says one thing and your mind says something completely different, then take your time.

So there is no need to blindly trust your instinct, but never underestimate or neglect it. You should always be confident upon yourself. Before taking any decision you have to think again and again, take suggestion from experienced if need. Don't be panic or over think about anything. It is bad for health and mind. All are not equal in the world. If you are honest at the end of the day you will win in the race of life.