BEAT YOURSELF! BUT NOT DOWN.

There was this project that I was recently working on, I got stuck along the line with a couple of challenges - serious ones in the best description of seriousness. I tried to fix it myself, but it didn't work... I should have called the attention of other experts earlier though.

Well, I feel, as ambitious people, we tend to want to fix everything by ourselves. We want to be able to accomplish great things by ourselves and lodge all the glory into our pockets. But when we fall short, we start blaming ourselves.

How many times have you ever felt that you're your own worst enemy? This happens from time to time to almost everyone.

Blaming yourself for your sticking points or shortcoming with your dreams? You feel that you know what you should be doing, but you either don't do it or fail when trying.

It's tough a feeling. It certainly happened to me, too.

But the truth is, we have to be kind to ourselves. We have to forgive ourselves for the times when it's not working. We have to forgive ourselves when we do or say the wrong things.

We're definitely human. And elements of imperfection constitute the premise of the human nature.

Next time you feel like blaming yourself for your shortcoming with your calling and life, think about children. They never feel bad for failing or struggling. They just smile and try again. Because truth is, just like with children, if we learn and try enough as many times as it takes, we will always eventually succeed!