A Sensitive Choice

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Abtion is a scary word?
As soon as people hear the name 'Aboshan', a different image seems to be formed. Some people consider it a responsibility. Some people consider it just a choice. But the most important thing is that all your decisions affect the mother of the child. Whatever decision you take, your mother will have to answer for it physically. Because of this, before listening to people's decisions, we should remember what impact that decision can have on the mother. Whatever decision we take has to go through mother, so we should think about mother first.

Should abortion be an option?

1.It is possible that you have just got married and you have to meet your own expenses by combining the income of both of you. In such a situation, your child planning method may not be successful. You may not have planned your child's future yet and may not be able to keep him because of money.

2-If the girl gets married at a young age and is not able to maintain pregnancy because the girl is not mature as per her pregnancy age. If she continues the pregnancy then it is possible that she may go into depression.

3- I have seen many times that doctors say that if you keep this child, your life is in danger. This happens because sometimes the mother has some kind of physical problem which can lead to her death, then abortion can be a choice.

4-In some cases, it happens that a girl has just given birth to a child due to which her body has become very weak, in such a situation, giving birth to another child is harmful for health, due to which many times we have to stop the pregnancy, that is, we have to take the option of abortion.

Is father's opinion important?
A father can become emotionally attached. Relationship is the responsibility of both. Therefore both have to take this responsibility together. A father's opinion is necessary because it may happen that the father may not be able to fulfill his responsibilities. After that the main burden falls on the mother.

But the mother's decision is considered more important, one reason for this is that the pregnancy is the mother's. The body is theirs. Whatever process will be done, they have to do it. They will have to suffer. I have seen many times that the father is unable to bear the responsibility and runs away, during which the mother has to do everything. One should listen to what the father's thoughts are - but the mother's decision should be taken in the end because she has to do whatever process she has to go through and she has to think about the future of the child.

What should the society do?
Look, you have to take the decision. Society can come to convince you. She can only give you suggestions. She may say something wrong. But if you want to live your life ahead, then you have to take the decision yourself. The job of the society is to say without knowing anything that abortion is wrong. But the one who is doing it knows why he is doing it. Society can only judge you. Can't support you. So the decision should be taken thoughtfully.

Conclusion
Friends, I believe that the decision of abortion is a difficult one. You should take this decision not based on what people say, but considering your mother's health, future planning, medical safety, all these things. I agree that it is an abortion, the decision is not easy, it is difficult, but you should take this decision after discussing it with both of you, it is a responsibility. I can consider it a choice because no parent wants to put their children in a bad situation. So the decision should be taken thoughtfully.

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