Traumatic circumstances

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Post trauma

PTSD

post traumatic stress disorder

This is a condition that develops after someone has had a bad experience in the past that traumatized him or her

Not every experience can lead to PTSD only the traumatized ones the ones that cannot be forgotten and when remembered put you in shock or hurt

My friend had a post trauma for vehicles. She is always scared when walking on the road because of a period she was involved in an accident. Hearing the cars horn brings fears to her

This is also because of an event that her brain cannot let go of

Anytime she see vehicles her brain perceives danger, her breathing quickens sweat covers her skin if care is not taken she can enter into panic attack.

Another of my friends has this thing with cockroaches. Funny her small these creatures are but she can scream down the whole building . There’s was a night that she’s was sleeping and according to her something was crawling on her body only for her to switch on her touch and saw cockroach, she starting shouting and crying she could not even sleep in her room . I was even laughing because I was baffled and surprised that she’s crying for small cockroach.

One of my friends also has a very sad experience that even I cannot forget . When this experiences was narrated to me I was pained and I felt bad for my friend

My friend was molested at an early age by an older person

This kept going on for years this made my friend to start masturbating and always weird fantasies when they see people

After my friend grew up became a teenager that’s know wrong from right up to this moment my friend cannot seems to forget the experience , sometimes it’s makes my friend question his existence

My friend keeps on asking this question why me?

Though the abuses has stopped but the memories remains in his memory and it’s disturbing and alarming

PSTD is something very serious , Imagine living with traumas images memories of something terrible that happened to you

You can’t close your eyes , you keep on remembering it and everyday there are glitches of it

PTSD turns people life upside down it’s makes one to dwell in the past

There’s something I say to my friends everyday ,I tell them that “your past does not define “ it’s the present and the future , so leave what’s has happened though it’s hard and difficult to do please focus on the new you focus on a better version of yourself.

I tell them that they are more than what’s has happened and they can talk to me anytime . I will always be here to walk through that difficult path with them

In conclusion

people with PTSD get better ,It’s not a death sentence it can be managed and treated . Just learn to open up to the right person/people.

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