My first experience getting flagged

So these days, I'm currently getting into writing and of course I want people to upvote me or just comment about my blog.
So since I wanted to get upvoted and appreciated I commented on some posts that if they upvote my posts I will upvote theirs. Some people upvoted me and I upvoted them also but theres this one used who flagged my comment saying that I am spamming her post. I didn't mean to do that and I didn't think some will think of it that way.
What I can say is that I am kinda' disappointed but that's how steemit and the world works.

I have been blogging for a while now so it's normal for me to want my posts to be upvoted or just being commented.
I never thought it would be like that but I need to stay positive.

So THAT's IT. I WON'T REQUEST FOR UPVOTES IF YOU THINK THAT I AM JUST SPAMMING