Unforgiving world question . . .

 Here's a question: How is it that so many people can agree that the world is a mean, nasty, unforgiving place, and yet as soon as someone points out how and where (especially in regards to the mass immigration of muslim refugees and their culture destroying the host counties) we hear "nope, can't happen here. You're paranoid. You're racist. Bigot. Xenophobe"???