You are in charge

It is not a lie that you have to dress the way you want to be addressed. This is because your dress says a lot about you and the kind of people you want around you but most people dress just to look good and they don’t attach so much meaning to it. Most times people dress just to send a message to their friends and their loved ones but not really about how they want to be addressed, which can be good or bad. at the end of the day, whether are you dressing to impress someone or you address in a way that people can perceive differently there is always more to how you want people to perceive you and this is because your dressing alone will not tell the full story about you and some people know this

No matter how odd or how good you dress, some people will not judge you based on that. they will still take their time just to know you and try to understand you better. the way you talk plays a vital in how people perceive you and how people relate with you simply because some people don’t judge the look they judge what comes out of your mouth. most people will believe 70% of what you are saying at first without confirming whether it is true or not. The kind of words that come out of your mouth also play a role in the kind of people that stay in your life. when people realize that what you are saying is against their beliefs they will give you space. we can all agree that how you dress and what comes out of your mouth can be opposite each other.

It is even getting more complicated that now

The world is changing and the easiest way to know people is by having their social media handles.  how you want people to perceive you also reflects on your social media handle. If you are the type that uses WhatsApp very well, you understand that some people post a lot of quotes on their status and what they are trying to do is for people to perceive them differently and see them as intellectual person. we all know that posting quotes doesn’t make you intelligent, but your status says a lot about you and how you want people to perceive you and this is what most influencers and celebrities normally do the flaunt their expensive lifestyle online so that you can them as a wealthy person and This can be true or a false.

Sometimes how you carry yourself plays an important role in how people perceive you and most importantly, the way you approach situations. The way you approach a situation plays an important role in how you want to be addressed. people who normally notice these are those who are very close to us. This can be our family, younger ones, and even our children. everybody around us always notices this and this doesn’t have anything to do with the way you dress or the way you speak even your social media handle. how we want people to perceive us has everything to do with us. we are the ones in charge of how we want people to perceive us and how we want them to address or approach us.

You are in charge

it is very important to know that we are in charge. It is like you working on a character in a movie, it is exactly what you do Will make people understand more about the character, That is how we should live our life.
What people will do and say to you begins with you. We are the ones in charge of how we want people to perceive us, and we want people to see us. It is very important not to be confused about how we want people to see us all. It is important to live our truth starting from the way we dress, what we post on social media, in general, should reflect who we are and not fake it for someone else.

Thanks for your time.