Ouch, that is rough. I think I have only been that bad maybe once in my life, but I can guarantee I wasn't wearing a bikini. I know what you mean about people calling. I hate it when I text and they call me back. I think if I wanted to physically talk to you I would have called not texted. I can't really tell you what to do with her. Likely if you are honest it isn't going to land well. She needs to find herself at rock bottom and either keep going down or pick herself back up. I guess though if you don't say anything and something happens to her, would you feel bad? Maybe let that guide you.